Original Advice
“DONT: Don't excuse secrecy as privacy forever”
Stop Calling Secrets 'Privacy'
Privacy protects tenderness; secrecy protects lies. Stop confusing them. When texts go face-down, passwords reset, locations disappear, you are being asked to live in the dark. Capricorn, you can read a spreadsheet; you can read this. If they cheated, the shadows are part of the pattern. Agreeing to blindness is participation. Call it what it is. Name the lock. Demand daylight or stop knocking.
Real privacy is agreement: two signatures on one boundary. Secrecy is unilateral: a wall built overnight, no permits, no blueprint. Trust doesn’t grow in sealed rooms; it molds. Your time is a resource, not a donation box. If they want you, they make room for you in the ledger, the calendar, the phone history. Accountability isn’t romance; it’s plumbing. It keeps the building from flooding.
Cosmic Context
You are Saturn-ruled: you build structures that hold weight. Pick partners who pass inspection, not just passcodes.
Action
──────Set a hard deadline for transparency and enforce consequences.
✨ You are allowed to choose clarity over closeness. ✨