Original Advice
“DO: Schedule weekly check-ins for feelings and plans”
Make Honesty A Standing Meeting
Here’s the cut: trust doesn’t regenerate in silence. A cheater thrives in fog. Clear the air on a schedule. Put feelings and logistics on the record every week. No ambushes. No drunken confessions. Metrics, not vibes. You keep getting whiplash because there’s no cadence. Install one. If they bristle at routine, read the data: they prefer chaos. Choose order.
Weekly check-ins are a ledger for promises. They force daylight onto patterns, not just apologies. You don’t wait for disaster; you review before it happens. Share plans, temptations, calendars, pressure points. Agree on consequences in advance. Make it boring. Boring is stable. Stable gives desire a spine. If the story cannot survive a calendar, it cannot survive you.
Cosmic Context
You’re Saturn-ruled: systems, clocks, accountability. Use them like armor, not chains.
Action
──────Block a 30-minute Sunday check-in on both calendars.
✨ You are allowed to require consistency before you offer softness. ✨