Original Advice
“DO: Offer specific praise; say exactly what you value.”
Aim Your Praise Like Sunlight
Vagueness is distance in costume. You say "you're great," and they feel nothing. General praise protects you, not them. It keeps you on the throne, shining at everyone, close to no one. If you want closeness, point your light. Name the act, the effort, the detail. Flattery is noise. Specific praise is signal. Be exact. Risk being understood.
Specifics prove you were there. They show your attention has a pulse. They tell someone why they matter, not just that they exist. This is how trust grows: not bigger, sharper. Say, "I valued how you slowed down and checked the facts," instead of "you're amazing." Precision is generosity. It takes five extra seconds. It dissolves distance faster than charm.
Cosmic Context
You’re solar, Leo; your power is illumination. Aim it at true details and people bloom toward you, instead of backing away from the blaze.
Action
──────Text one person: name three precise things they did well.
✨ You are allowed to say what you saw. ✨