Original Advice
“DONT: Stop testing them with jealousy or silent treatment.”
Retire the Jealousy Games Now
You’re not creating tension; you’re creating confusion. The jealous poke and the cold shoulder aren’t charisma—they’re control dressed as intrigue. You call it standards, but it’s fear of being the one who cares first. Stop auditioning them. Stop punishing them. If they’re distant, your silence won’t magnetize them; it only teaches them to enjoy the quiet. Say the quiet part out loud.
Tests rot trust because they turn love into a maze. Distance breeds distance; that’s physics, not poetry. You are the Sun; you don’t stalk eclipses to prove your light. Set the temperature instead. Ask, don’t bait. Lead with warmth, not traps. Make clarity the thrill: what you want, when you want it, how close. Consistency is hotter than crisis.
Cosmic Context
Leo rules with heat, not with withholding. Your fixed fire keeps people close through steady radiance, not shadow play.
Action
──────Call them and say exactly what you want tonight.
✨ You are allowed to want loudly and receive without apology. ✨