Original Advice

DO: Send a quick check-in, not a paragraph.

Check In, Don't Perform

Your warmth turns into spotlight hunger when distance scares you. You over-explain, over-share, overheat the line. The long text reads like a performance, not care. Stop auditioning. They don’t need a thesis; they need proof of life. Two sentences max. Name the elephant, feed it a peanut, keep walking. Leave silence. Let it work.

Closeness isn’t built by volume, it’s built by rhythm. A quick ping carries trust: you believe the bond can breathe. You don’t cage them with context. You offer a breadcrumb, not a trap. Short signals invite short replies, which restart the loop. Confidence is concise. Precision is generous. When the line is thin, speak in taps, not trumpets.

Cosmic Context

Leo is solar: your presence fills rooms. Lead with warmth, not wattage; let your gravity do the pulling.

Action

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Right now, send: “Thinking of you. No reply needed.”

You are allowed to be brief and still be warm.