Original Advice
“DONT: Don't confuse perfectionism with disinterest or rejection.”
Precision Isn't Rejection, Virgo
Stop mistaking your edits for frost. You calibrate pillows, pressure, timing, and then punish yourself for caring. Your urge to micro-adjust reads to you like distance, so you withdraw, go quiet, and call it being 'chill.' It's not. It's fear masquerading as standards. You want it better because you want them more. Own that, or you’ll ritualize loneliness under the sheet corners.
Your craft is devotion. You optimize because Mercury runs data through your nerves; feedback is your love language. But unspoken calibration broadcasts absence. Partners fill blanks with no. The fix is not less precision; it’s transparency. Label the tweak as appetite. Say what the angle means: stay, more, deeper. Turn criticism into choreography. Let your standards invite, not punish. Make clarity the kink.
Cosmic Context
Mutable Earth refines; Mercury names. Speak the calibration so your devotion stops looking like refusal.
Action
──────Say 'I want this because I want you' with every adjustment.
✨ You are allowed to be exacting without apologizing for your desire. ✨