Original Advice
“DO: Do praise specifics and request small experiments.”
Praise Details, Pilot Pleasure Experiments
Your standards are exquisite; your silence ruins the experiment. You expect telepathy in the dark, then grade the results like a secret examiner. Stop hoarding feedback. Say what worked. Reward it. Precision is arousal. When you don’t mark the bullseye, your body gets approximations and your mind writes complaints. Praise specifics out loud. Request tiny tweaks. Build the scene molecule by molecule.
Your brain runs on calibration. So does pleasure. Specific praise teaches your partner’s nervous system what to repeat; tiny experiments keep novelty without chaos. Treat it like a lab: isolate one variable, change the speed, test the pressure, then mark the win. Keep the notes in your breath sounds and short sentences. Iterate until ease appears. Small data, big outcome.
Cosmic Context
You’re Mercury-ruled Earth: craft, edit, refine. This is devotion disguised as technique; service that turns to worship.
Action
──────Tonight, say: Repeat that, ten percent slower.
✨ You are allowed to narrate your pleasure without apology. ✨