Original Advice
“You are allowed to want reassurance. - Ask for it directly and agree on healthy ways to receive it. Clear requests beat silent tests every time. Release the shame; your needs are valid, and boundaries keep them safe.”
Ask, Don't Patrol Love
Here is the cut: your possessiveness doesn't guard love, it strangles oxygen. You set traps, read crumbs, punish lateness with silence, then call it standards. That's not courage; that's fear in armor. Ask for reassurance, or watch yourself invent betrayals no one committed. Clear requests expose the truth faster than jealousy ever will. Choose the risk of clarity over the slow bleed of suspicion.
Reassurance is information. You live fast; ambiguity drags you into covert wars. Direct asks give your Mars a mission and your heart a map. Agreements about how and when you'll be reassured turn panic into routine: a text, a call, a touch, a calendar note. Boundaries are scaffolding, not cages. When you know the rules, your fire heats the room instead of burning it down.
Cosmic Context
Mars-ruled Aries is built for bold initiations, not shadow games. Clean asks match your engine and keep your leadership brave instead of brittle.
Action
──────Stop surveillance. Text exactly what reassurance you want, once.
✨ You are allowed to ask directly and be answered with love. ✨