Original Advice
“Excitement doesn’t equal commitment: If you keep chasing the next spark, you’ll keep losing good people. Consistency is a decision, not a mood.”
Decide to Burn, Not Flash
You confuse ignition with endurance. You love the chase and ghost the finish line. You collect first kisses like trophies, then call it boredom when responsibility arrives. You want a flame that never dims, so you walk when it flickers. That pattern isn’t fate; it’s preference. Consistency is chosen in the unsexy hours. Keep running and you’ll keep losing the ones who would stay.
Your engine runs on novelty, but relationships run on repetition. Adrenaline feels holy; intimacy feels quiet. That quiet is not a red flag; it is oxygen. The spark begins the fire; the calendar keeps it alive. Decide once, then keep deciding. Show up on the dull Tuesday. Answer the text before the urge fades. Choose the same person when the world offers ten. That is heat that lasts.
Cosmic Context
Aries is cardinal fire—built to start, not to linger. Your ruler Mars wants conquest; today, prove courage by staying after the drumbeat stops.
Action
──────Set a recurring Thursday date. Show up four weeks in a row.
✨ You are allowed to prefer steadiness to spectacle and call it passion. ✨